Impressing a woman is a challenge that can make even the hunkiest of men break into a sweat. And if you don't exactly look like Brad Pitt, the challenge is real. Women are unpredictable, yes. You had the perfect date, you were at your best behaviour, you made interesting conversation, put on your most expensive perfume, showered her with gifts, but somehow she still seems to be evading you. Confused?
No matter how perfect a guy seems to be, women usually have a set of nonnegotiable dating red flags that spell instant doom for a budding relationship.Don't blow up a perfect romantic story by committing these 10 dating mistakes.These are the deal-breakers, men.
1 BRAGGING TOO MUCH
You are the manager in your company, you are the life of every party, you just bought the fanciest car in the world -good for you, dude. But don't you make the mistake of blowing your trumpet through the date! There are subtle ways of showing off, if you absolutely have to.Confidence is one thing, cockiness is another. Never mix the two.
2 BAD HYGIENEBODY ODOUR
No matter how dashing you look or how expensive your designer clothes are, you've lost the game if you reek of body odour when you lean in to kiss her. This is one of the biggest turn-offs for women.
3 CHECKING OUT OTHER GIRLS
Whoa! This one's written in stone. We can't stress it enough.Checking out other girls is an absolute no-no! You don't look even if the hottest girl in the world passes by your table, especially if it's your first date. We know it's hard not to look just for the sake of looking, but don't. Women notice this more than anything. No matter how secure and self-confident your woman is, this will not go down well with her.
4 RANTING ABOUT YOUR EX
Discussing old lovers and expe riences can become easy and fun over time, but doing it during the initial days is a total deal-breaker. Don't bore her with a long, sorry tale of how it didn't work out between you and your ex.
5 BLABBERING TOO MUCH WITHOUT LISTENING
Calm down chief, it's not an extempore skit. Talking too much and listening too little spells a boring date for the one who's doing all the listening. No woman wants to sit through a date with her lips sealed, listening to the guy blabber about everything under the sun. We understand you want to impress her, make her feel comfortable, and keep the conversation going, but going on and on will only make the date one-sided. Give her a chance to speak, ask her questions, and when she answers, listen. Not enough importance has been given to this word -listen.
6 MAKING FUN OF HER
Unless you are on backslap ping terms or the joke is really funny, don't tread this territory. Making fun of your dategirlfriend is a total disaster. Now, taking a harmless witty jibe is absolutely fine, in fact, it is recommended. What's not is cracking joke at her expense because you can't think of anything better. And if you happen to make fun of her in front of your or her friends, get ready for a showdown.
7 BEING TOO CLINGY
You may be the perfect guy bright, handsome, witty, and gentle-natured -but you will lose the game if you are too clingy for her comfort. Don't message her five times right after you've dropped her home. Don't call her at office when she has told you she has meetings all day. Women too love the chase as much as men do. Don't kill the initial excitement of the relationship by being too available at all times.Leave her wanting for a little more of you at the end of the day .
8 TOO TOUCHY FOR COMFORT
Unless you both are clearly irresistible to each other, getting too touchyfeely on the initial dates is a turn-off, even if you met through Tinder. A carefree brush of the shoulder or hands every now and then is definitely recommended, but don't get all hot and heavy on her. Touching the waist is out of bounds unless you are dancing. There's a difference between enjoyable flirting and being a pervert, and women are exceptionally skilled at noticing it.
9 CRITICISING OTHER GIRLS IN FRONT OF HER
Yes, that's right. You may think girls love bitching about each other and by indulging in some, you may score brownie points with her. No, sir! Chances are she will take your sweeping generalisations personally sooner or later. Sometimes, when you have been single for too long and have spent too much time with your bros, you fall into the habit of women bashing. Just don't do it in front of your date. Don't tell her how women are shallow, mean and nasty these days, of course, hastily adding `all except you'. Trust us, she will sense that undertone of contempt and will want to gouge your eyes out. There's no coming back from this one, bro.
10 NOT COOL MALE CHAUVINISM,
Feminism or not, no woman wants to hear you say that you are better than them by the virtue of your gender.Women hate male chauvinists. If she insists on splitting the bill, split the bill after a polite protest. Don't be adamant on paying it all because it's your first date and you are the man.
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