Is your girlfriend a dictator?

SIGNS YOU’RE DATING A CONTROL FREAK

Here’s what you must look out for to know if your woman is someone who loves to dictate terms to you all the time

    Ever heard taunts from friends who have stated what a puppet you are in your lady’s hands? Do you think you’ve never had an opinion any time you wanted to, only because your girlfriend is busy opining on your behalf ? Do you feel that you’re dictated terms to, but are always made to believe that the deed’s done for your good? Maybe it isn’t the way it seems! You are probably dating a control freak, who loves to make you live your life her way. Here are the indications that your partner is one: 

 
>> POSSESSIVE TO THE CORE: Yes, this is a key and, probably, the first sign your partner will show when she’s a control freak. Can she never take situations lightly especially when it deals with other women? Is she always suspecting you of hitting on others? Does she make a scene to show you off in front of people because she wants to prove you belong to her? That surely is an indicator.
>> YOU ARE NOT ‘YOU’ ANYMORE: When your friends start complaining that you’ve changed excessively and try explaining the change to you, that’s a sign. Remember, friends always get to know such things before anyone else, and will hint about it to you too. 

>> SHE NEEDS TO KNOW EVERY TAKE: No matter how personal it be, no matter which friend it is about, your girlfriend needs to know the details like nobody else does. And God forbid, if you decide not to tell her about something, the drama that follows, will totally not be worth the trouble. 

>> QUITE YOUR MOM SHE BE: Yes, she acts like she’s the new mommy in your life. There’s a list of do’s and don’ts she chalks out for you, and also a list of what is good and/or bad for you; just that she adds endearments like baby, honey, darling, along with the lineup! And she’s so busy telling you right from wrong, that by now you start thinking the way she does, liking and disliking everything she does. 

 
>> YOU ARE ALWAYS ANSWERABLE TO HER: No matter what happens, your girlfriend will want a justification included with the account. If you notice that you are defending yourself most of the times before her, she’s a control freak. She needs to know your every move, that’s how she likes it, thus she makes sure you let her know the reasons why you’ve done a certain thing or behaved in a certain way. 

>> INVOLVES FAMILY: So you’ve done something without telling your parents and your girlfriend doesn’t approve of it either. Here’s when she plays her trump card, informs your parents on your behalf thereby endearing herself to them and leaving you to face the brickbats alone. But hey! it’s for “your good” anyway. “Stop cribbing.” 

>> SHE SPIES: When your girlfriend is sleuthing around and busy gathering information about you from close friends, she’s controlling. Get to know how often she speaks to your friends and whether she inquires much about you?

Is your girlfriend a dictator?