Settling down is something we all desire, at any given time in our lives. It could be when we need more stability and prominence in everything we stand for and it could also be a reminder that it’s time to share your life with a significant other and not spend it all alone.
But sometimes, you’re confused whether or not you’re ready to make such a commitment. It’s a big commitment alright. Only because you have to spend your entire life with that one person and that should be carefully considered!
If you’re a little lost about making that decision, here are certain things that can help you decide whether or not you’re ready for marriage.
1 YOU SEEK STABILITY Yes, you’ve had your fun and done things you probably have no regrets about but off late you’re trying to seek stable grounds and find someone you want to be with, without making a fling out of it. If you already have someone in your life, you’re thinking of becoming a little more serious and stable with the person. That’s the first prominent mark towards being ready for marriage.
2 YOU’RE MORE FASTIDIOUS ABOUT YOUR SAVINGS
You’re at a point in your life where you’re earning a good amount of money and are also saving some. Even if you’re not earning what you wish to, you’re still making small savings. You’re looking at future investment plans and securing your future, knowing it’s going to come in handy soon.
3 YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY IN LOVE
If you’re with someone and absolutely smitten by them, then you know marriage is definitely on the cards and it’s getting you ready to take things more seriously. You want to have the ‘serious’ talk with her and you can’t stop thinking about your future together. This is when you know you’re ready and that she’s the one!
4 YOU’RE DONE WITH DATING
You feel absolutely exhausted in the dating game and want to give up on casual dates and flings, and look for something more serious. You want to give up on one night stands and hook ups just to find the perfect fit for you. You subconsciously want to find someone who can be with you forever. That’s also a mark of a mature man and you know maturity when you start thinking about life a little more seriously.
5 YOU ACT COMFORTABLE AROUND YOUR COUPLE FRIENDS
A lot of people either avoid or cringe around their couple friends. Specially people who are single or just casually dating. If you are ready for marriage you don’t mind their company at all. In fact, you want to hang with them and learn all about relationships if you’re not in one already. If you are in a relationship, you hang a lot more with your married friends, just so you get into that zone too! Many times, you’d also like to ask your couple friends to look for a probable match for you.
There are a lot many signs that you’re probably ready for the biggest commitment of your life. If you’re with someone, these signs are more visible and if you’re not with someone, you’re looking for the one person you can start something serious with. Whatever it is, there is a right time for every man to feel like he’s ready for marriage and if you feel any of the things mentioned above, you probably are!
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