7 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND




These potential verbal landmines should be avoided by any man in a relationship
It has often been said that men are from Mars and women from Venus.

But since they've both managed to find common ground on Earth, it's important for them to know the right things to say to each other. Humans haven't evolved to a point where they can literally read each other's minds (thankfully!), so it is vital to learn the things you should never say to your girlfriend. This will ensure you have a long and loving relationship, minus too many hiccups.At the end of the day, speaking to the woman in your life can be as dangerous as navigating your way through a minefield. So, pay heed and make sure you never says these words in front of your significant other...

1 `WOW, SHE'S HOT!'

If you didn't already know this one, you need more help than what this article can give you. No woman is as secure as she makes herself out to be. So, even if she's the one who brings up how attractive another woman is, remember that it is not an invitation for you to start describing your fantasies with this woman and your girlfriend. Refrain from using phrases like, `She's pretty cute' or `Your friend is super hot.' Don't even go there!

2 `MY EX WAS...'

Don't ever bring up your ex, no matter how many times she talks about hers. And believe it or not, it makes no difference whether you're putting the ex on a pedestal or slam ming her into the ground. The former will make her feel insecure about you straying back to your ex and the latter will make her wonder about how badly you might talk about her should you'll break up! Also, please never mention that you cheated on your ex if you did.

3 `CAN YOU CUDDLE ME?'

Women dig men who are... well, men! Be confident, strong and never admit your deepest desire to be cuddled rather than to cuddle. She might just go running for the hills -with your dignity in tow!

4 `YOU'RE WEARING THAT?!'

No woman has ever rolled out of bed and come to meet you. If you're out with her, she's definitely spent time on her hair, make-up or at least spent a good 10 minutes deciding what to wear. So, it doesn't matter if she's wearing a rainbow-coloured poncho or zebra-striped pants, as far as you're concerned she looks great and there will be nothing more said about it.

5 `YOU'RE OVERREACTING' OR `RELAX' Nothing

can annoy a woman more than these two phrases! This can be for one of two reasons. One is, she already knows she is overreacting (this one is more likely) and she is basically just venting to get it out. She does not want to be reminded of this flaw in her character. And two, she really means what she's saying and doesn't appreciate you trivialising what she has to say. So seriously, just shut up and listen. If possible, and if the anger is not directed at you, try to give her a hug and show her you're there for her.

6 `I'M NOT IN THE MOOD'

Whatever you do, avoid these words as much as possible. The second you utter these not-so-magic words, she will be as hurt as she would be if you told her you cheated on her.She will assume you don't find her attractive anymore and have probably already got busy with someone else. So, do what you do best and just go with it whether you're in the mood or not.

7 `ARE YOU PMS-ING?'

Want to know why this one bugs women so much? It's because any time she says something you don't really understand, you're attributing it to hormonal imbalances that she can't control and are not listening to what she's really saying. Granted she might actually be talking a whole lot of garbage, which she will apologise for later when she's not PMS-ing, but it's a whole lot safer to just wait it out than to say the above words!