Of no use?
We give you top 10 signs to find out if your girlfriend is simply using you
1. She likes your friends more than she likes you:
Your girlfriend is all enthusiastic and begs you to take her to this popular party. But once you go there, she barely acknowledges you. It's a tell-tale sign that she might be using you for status, or to get closer to a pal of yours who she likes more than she likes you.
2. She runs away from your family:
A girlfriend who likes you will be happy to hang out with your friends and your family. But if she's always hurrying them out of the room, she's probably not interested in connecting with them.
3. She won't be your official girlfriend:
Girlfriends make a lot of fuss if guys don't change their social networking status to committed from single. So, if her status still says 'single' (either on Facebook or in the real world), she's not ready for an emotional commitment. She's not a real girlfriend, she's just using you. Maybe she's seeing another guy on the side.
4. One-way street:
You spend hours in taking care of her things or chores, but you start talking about work and she rolls over her eyes. Ask her to take the dog to the vet and she's busy. For some people, relationships are a one-way street and it's better to stay out of it.
5. Relationship limbo:
You've been dating for months but never talk about making it official. She doesn't take you to meet her parents, and when you bump into one of her friends, she introduces you as a friend.
6. Late night liaisons:
Your girlfriend only calls you late at night. She wants to come over, and she sounds a little drunk — then you're definitely the booty call! Physical intimacy might be crackling, but if you are looking to connect emotionally as well, then she is not the one for you.
7. No time:
If you plan something out, she never has the time for it. She gives you silly excuses. But when she has some plans then you have to tag along with her.
8. You are her puppy dog:
She wants to go to this place, she wants to eat this, she wants to do this and that...If it's always what she wants and you agree to it every time, even when you don't like it personally — then sorry to say, you are simply her cute puppy dog!
9. Good connections:
You are doing pretty well in your field of work and you get to hang out with the rich and the famous. Your partner seems to love rubbing shoulders. Her ears prick up at the mere mention of a function or a social event. Solution? Stop taking them along.
10. It's all about the money:
She always takes it for granted that you will pay for everything. She might just be flat broke, and is probably after your hard-earned money. If she starts to ask you for loans, or indicates you should be buying her gifts, it's likely about the money, and not the love.
We give you top 10 signs to find out if your girlfriend is simply using you
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1. She likes your friends more than she likes you:
Your girlfriend is all enthusiastic and begs you to take her to this popular party. But once you go there, she barely acknowledges you. It's a tell-tale sign that she might be using you for status, or to get closer to a pal of yours who she likes more than she likes you.
2. She runs away from your family:
A girlfriend who likes you will be happy to hang out with your friends and your family. But if she's always hurrying them out of the room, she's probably not interested in connecting with them.
3. She won't be your official girlfriend:
Girlfriends make a lot of fuss if guys don't change their social networking status to committed from single. So, if her status still says 'single' (either on Facebook or in the real world), she's not ready for an emotional commitment. She's not a real girlfriend, she's just using you. Maybe she's seeing another guy on the side.
4. One-way street:
You spend hours in taking care of her things or chores, but you start talking about work and she rolls over her eyes. Ask her to take the dog to the vet and she's busy. For some people, relationships are a one-way street and it's better to stay out of it.
5. Relationship limbo:
You've been dating for months but never talk about making it official. She doesn't take you to meet her parents, and when you bump into one of her friends, she introduces you as a friend.
6. Late night liaisons:
Your girlfriend only calls you late at night. She wants to come over, and she sounds a little drunk — then you're definitely the booty call! Physical intimacy might be crackling, but if you are looking to connect emotionally as well, then she is not the one for you.
7. No time:
If you plan something out, she never has the time for it. She gives you silly excuses. But when she has some plans then you have to tag along with her.
8. You are her puppy dog:
She wants to go to this place, she wants to eat this, she wants to do this and that...If it's always what she wants and you agree to it every time, even when you don't like it personally — then sorry to say, you are simply her cute puppy dog!
9. Good connections:
You are doing pretty well in your field of work and you get to hang out with the rich and the famous. Your partner seems to love rubbing shoulders. Her ears prick up at the mere mention of a function or a social event. Solution? Stop taking them along.
10. It's all about the money:
She always takes it for granted that you will pay for everything. She might just be flat broke, and is probably after your hard-earned money. If she starts to ask you for loans, or indicates you should be buying her gifts, it's likely about the money, and not the love.
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