12 resolutions for your relationship

12 resolutions for your relationship

There are things we like and some we dislike about our relationships. Here are 12 ways to weave the magic back into your life in the New Year 1Time to be merry!: Party hard, reflect on the past year and improve your relationship with your partner. 2Make your relationship a priority: We lead busy and hectic lifestyles, but that’s not an excuse to snap at the person we love the most. 3Tech-free zones: Too much of beeping smart phones and in-your-face social media notifications! Detach and focus on love. Create tech-free zones to spend quality time with each other. 4 Buy random gifts: Who said only special days should be celebrated? Play the surprise game and get small gifts to beat the drum of affection. 5 Delete ugly ‘other people’ conversations: Why should your spouse listen to unpleasant things about those around you. Control your emotional outbursts. 6 Cook for each other: Our affair with food is unending — prepare your lover’s favourite dish with gusto. Then even if the outcome is not delectable, the effort will gain you brownie points. 7 Praise each other : Expression is a very strong ingredient in the recipe of love. Complimenting each other is a sure ticket to bliss. Try it! 8 Time out : Stop being the moral police and take time off to bask in the absence of your love. Rumi got inspired by the absence of his lover, you may too! 9 Flaunt the togetherness: Holding hands while crossing the road or offering the first bite of ice cream says a lot about your attitude towards your relationship. 10 Have more sex: Quit complaining or finding excuses, do what both of you really enjoy. 11 Disagree but don’t disrespect : All couples fight. But avoiding each other’s calls or bitching about it to your friends is no good. 12 Bad habit, Bye! : Break a bad habit together. Deal with smoking or the urge to binge by setting targets and working constructively towards them.