SINGLE AND UNAPOLOGETIC
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Indian women have never been
far behind their western counterparts when it came to fighting for
their rights and independence. However, they still toed the traditional
line, especially when it came to marriage. New findings state that
Indian women, today , are beginning to exercise their rights even
when it comes to relationships; they are opting for a better life rather
than be the better half. A single, successful and happy woman is now a
reality in urban Indian society . A bunch of women chasing their
dreams -like the fabulous foursome from iconic TV series Sex And The
City -has become a common sight here. We chart the rise of the forever
singleton.
WHAT'S BEHIND THIS?
Gone are the days when Indian women sought to marry to fit into society. The fact that they work and are financially independent has also contributed in their emancipation. They are taking charge of their life, especially in relationship matters. Women no longer regard romance and marriage as their ultimate goal in life. Says psychologist Seema Hingorrany , “For women, having a successful career is the most important thing to shape their identity vis-à-vis the past when a woman's identity was synonymous with a happy marriage and child-rearing.“
CAREER OVER ROMANCE
With education and career, they now make informed choices. Says novelist Usha Narayanan, “Romance is just one more aspect of their lives that they weigh in the context of their overall happiness. They are not willing to sacrifice their independence in order to get married, as they are secure in their own skin. They have the financial resources and the mental strength to handle challenges on their own. or with the help of other like-minded women.“ Take the case of the free-spirited young woman that Deepika Padukone played in Cocktail or Kangana Ranaut's Rani from Queen.
SINGLE BY DESIGN
Women who are unmarried by choice are a product of an age when middle-class parents encouraged their daughters into pursuing a career and being financially independent. Says travel writer Priyadarshini Ray , “Being single no longer means that you are lonely . In fact, it means that I am leading a free life where I can just pick up my rucksack and go on an adventure. I'm leading life on my terms and that's how I've always wanted it to be.“ These women definitely squash the idea that a `knight in shining armour' will come and rescue them.
SINGLETONS HAVE NO REGRETS
Freelance writer Rohini Sachdev says, “My boyfriend was migrating to London for a job. We were engaged for more than two years, but when he decided to leave India, he gave me an ultimatum by asking me to choose between him or journalism. I chose the latter and stayed put.I have absolutely no regrets about my decision.“
The fact that they don't have to depend on anybody for their high life spurs them to choose singledom. Adds Rohini, “I have a huge circle of friends and we meet up on weekends and also on weekdays. They are my support system.“
PERKS OF BEING A SINGLETON
You can travel on your own, without having to seek permission from your spouse You can make your own food choices and be in complete control of your diet You get more `me time' You have access to more time to work out in the health club You can do up the house as per your taste You have complete freedom of spending You can live and work in the city of your choice.
You have complete control over the TV remote No one tells you what to wear
Gone are the days when Indian women sought to marry to fit into society. The fact that they work and are financially independent has also contributed in their emancipation. They are taking charge of their life, especially in relationship matters. Women no longer regard romance and marriage as their ultimate goal in life. Says psychologist Seema Hingorrany , “For women, having a successful career is the most important thing to shape their identity vis-à-vis the past when a woman's identity was synonymous with a happy marriage and child-rearing.“
CAREER OVER ROMANCE
With education and career, they now make informed choices. Says novelist Usha Narayanan, “Romance is just one more aspect of their lives that they weigh in the context of their overall happiness. They are not willing to sacrifice their independence in order to get married, as they are secure in their own skin. They have the financial resources and the mental strength to handle challenges on their own. or with the help of other like-minded women.“ Take the case of the free-spirited young woman that Deepika Padukone played in Cocktail or Kangana Ranaut's Rani from Queen.
SINGLE BY DESIGN
Women who are unmarried by choice are a product of an age when middle-class parents encouraged their daughters into pursuing a career and being financially independent. Says travel writer Priyadarshini Ray , “Being single no longer means that you are lonely . In fact, it means that I am leading a free life where I can just pick up my rucksack and go on an adventure. I'm leading life on my terms and that's how I've always wanted it to be.“ These women definitely squash the idea that a `knight in shining armour' will come and rescue them.
SINGLETONS HAVE NO REGRETS
Freelance writer Rohini Sachdev says, “My boyfriend was migrating to London for a job. We were engaged for more than two years, but when he decided to leave India, he gave me an ultimatum by asking me to choose between him or journalism. I chose the latter and stayed put.I have absolutely no regrets about my decision.“
The fact that they don't have to depend on anybody for their high life spurs them to choose singledom. Adds Rohini, “I have a huge circle of friends and we meet up on weekends and also on weekdays. They are my support system.“
PERKS OF BEING A SINGLETON
You can travel on your own, without having to seek permission from your spouse You can make your own food choices and be in complete control of your diet You get more `me time' You have access to more time to work out in the health club You can do up the house as per your taste You have complete freedom of spending You can live and work in the city of your choice.
You have complete control over the TV remote No one tells you what to wear
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